Finding out you’re unexpectedly pregnant can feel overwhelming, but it’s critical to consider each possible path to determine the best option for your life. As you explore your options, you may be wondering whether adoption could be the right path for you, and more specifically, if an open adoption might be the best choice for your child’s future.
At Life Light, we want you to know you are not alone in this decision. You deserve to fully understand your choices and feel confident in your choice. Schedule a free appointment today to discuss adoption with our caring advocates.
Taking the First Step
Adoption isn’t about “giving up” your child. It’s about making a thoughtful, loving plan for their future. Today’s adoption process is more flexible and empowering than many people realize. You have a voice at every stage, from selecting the adoptive family to deciding how much contact you’d like to have in the future.
What Does Open Adoption Look Like?
Open adoption allows for ongoing communication between birth parents and the adoptive family. In California, open adoptions are legally enforceable through post-adoption contact agreements. They’re legally binding, and all parties must follow the terms, adding a layer of protection to whatever you and the adoptive family decide.
Contact can take many forms, like letters, photos, phone calls, or even in-person visits, depending on what feels comfortable for everyone involved. The goal is to build strong relationships and give your child the stability, love, and security they need.
Questions to Consider
Thinking through these questions may help you decide if open adoption feels right for you:
- What kind of life do I hope my child will have?
- How do I picture my role in their life as they grow?
- What kind of emotional or practical support do I need right now?
- What concerns or questions do I have about adoption?
You don’t have to have all the answers today. Taking time to reflect can help you learn what information is needed as you move forward.
Support and Resources Are Available
You will never be expected to cover the costs of adoption services or medical expenses associated with pregnancy and childbirth. Many adoption agencies can connect you with additional resources to help during pregnancy and beyond.
At Life Light, we can walk alongside you, connect you with trustworthy adoption agencies, and provide the information and emotional support you need.
You’re Not Alone
If you’re considering adoption, you deserve to explore your options in a safe, compassionate environment.
Schedule a confidential appointment with Life Light today. We’re here to answer your questions, connect you with the right resources, and walk with you every step of the way.
